Im a Taffy from Ebbw Vale, but grew up in London, so England is the first foreign country I have lived in. An ex professional violinist by trade, after I qualified at university I soon moved to Munich, since the conditions for musicians are so terrible in the UK. 4 years in W Germany playing with the Munich Chamber Orchestra. Nice city. Very good beer! There I met my first wife to be, she was also a violinst. But a lot of work, So we moved to Rome playing in the Opera House. A wonderful 2 years, but life is tough in Italy, unless you have a very high paying job or you dont need to work anymore - (La Dolce Vita) - the best option anywhere around the globe - So we went to Bergen Norway to play in the symphony orchestra there. A country to be avoided. The conditions are a paradise (by musicians standards) But you may find the long dark cold winters killing, alongside the brainwashed mentality of most Norwegians - they think everything is WONDERFUL there, when the truth of the matter is it could be. Norway is stinking rich but you would never know it living there or as a tourist. And the astronomical prices. My first wife died there of ovarian cancer in 1991. A brutal hard time for me. It takes about 18 months to get over. So, some years passed by which time Id had enough of orchestal life, better to starve, live on bread and water, I went into property, buying (with a mortgage) big old houses, fixing them up and renting out rooms to students! I made a fortune. By musicians standards. Came to Thailand for a (ahem) holiday about 2 and a half years ago and on my first evening iin Bangkok met my beautiful Sompong, we married a few months later. I love this crazy country! (see my interview) Were it not for Sompong, I suppose I would be living in Italy in a village in the hills/mountains just behind Genova by now. Not too expensive, I have the advantage of speaking passable Italian.
Living in Thailand
A Taff in Thailand Reading the above, I see I have forgotten to write anything about Thailand. We live in the country, in a village - Lalomtim where Sompong is from and most of her family live. (You will need a bloody good map of Thailand to find it!) about 4 hours drive East of Bangkok/Pattaya (Sin city) where we also have a holiday home. I couldnt afford our lifestyle anywhere in W Europe. You cant put a price on sunshine and no winter. Good food and the essentials of life, whiskey and tobacco are cheaper than bottled mineral water in Norway.The hospital services are better than in the UK/Norway. Remember to take out insurance. The primiums are not so expensive. Thais are very friendly and accept you warts and all. Even me. I cant say if you will like it here, but most of the expats from many parts of the world I have met do.
Wannabe expat?
There is much more to what Ive written above, of course there are going to be a few flies in the ointment wherever one lives. Nobody gives you anything on a plate. If the move turns out to be for you an unmitigated disaster, nothing will get one off ones backside faster to improve ones lot! I have been stone broke in Norway, London and penniless as a tourist in Spain (with no passport) and America escaping those situations by the skin of my teeth! I write from personal experience.
As Mark Twain put it - Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didnt do than by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbour. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. Something from Ernest Hemingway - "You're an expatriate. You've lost touch with the soil. You get precious. You drink yourself to death. You become obsessed with sex. You spend all your time talking. You are an expatriate see? You hang around cafes." "It sounds like a swell life," I said. "When do I work?"